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It’s been a while I haven’t updated this blog. My last post was in May 2020. Somehow, in the era of video blogs and audio blogs, I still feel comfortable putting my thoughts in writing. Writing in a language that’s not my native has been a constant challenge; however, the mood to write due to personal situations has been the most significant challenge by far.

In the past two years, I have been struggling to find the purpose of my life after a major change in my long-term relationship. It worsened as the pandemic hit in the year 2020. I guess 2020 was a terrible year for many of us, regardless of where you were.

The pandemic hasn’t yet been over in 2021; however, my situation is improving. I make peace with myself and what had happened. I stand on the ground rooting back in my first hometown. I enjoy what I do for a living and I still have Dante next to me (he is still a kick ass awesome dog). I also meet amazing people along the way who have inspired me. Their life struggles have encouraged me to return to this blog.

Quoting Joyce Meyer, I am not where I want to be, but I am thankful that I am not where I used to be.

My first travel destination in 2021 was Bali (Indonesia). It was for business purposes, and the trip was another memorable one. I visited organisations that support marginal communities during the pandemic, from the community of people with disability to gender-based violence survivors.

Again, an eye-opening trip to stay positive and trust our capabilities to make our dreams a reality.

It sounds clichéd, but surviving in challenging circumstances would be hard without a positive perspective. I have been there. We deserve to feel sad, miserable, lost trusts and unlucky compared to others, but how long do we have to feel sorry for ourselves and be afraid of our capability to move forward?

I have several travel plans in the future that include scuba diving trips. It’s a goal to make it happens. Fingers crossed. Thank you for continue following my blog during its absence. I will return with new blog posts.

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  1. We are lookig forward to new photos and texts of yours.
    By the way we are not English native speakers either and know this feeling how writing in a foreign language is a challenge.
    All the best
    The Fab Four of Cley
    🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

    • Thank you, Klaus.. yes, writing in foreign language is a challenge, and personal issues are still the biggest challenging by far. Hope that I will keep it up with blogging . Thank you again for your kind support.

  2. Hey, good to have you back. Now tell the truth, did you only post because you are bored in a lockdown? Yeah me too, I’ve done two post in the last few days 🙂 Great to hear you are doing well. I recently considered a move to Bali myself, but I’m still in Vietnam for the moment

    • Hi Barry, thank you! hahaha, not really bored, my paid job keeps me busy even during the lockdown. Hope you will move to Bali soon 🤞🏽

  3. Welcome back Indah. It’s so nice to your beautiful face and photos. Thank you for sharing more of your heart, challenges, and life. Yes, it’s been a challenging time for many, but glad to hear you’re getting back on track. blessings, Brad

  4. It’s great to see you back on WP, Indah! I am sorry that you’ve had such trouble with relationships, I am 3 times divorced. No more. I look forward to your new posts!

    • Hi John, oh no, I am sorry to hear that. Relationship could be tough sometimes. Thank you for sharing too..still following your IG during my absence in WP. Keep taking pictures!!

  5. I don’t know how I lost track of your blog, but for some reason I got the notice for this post. I am now going back to see all of the beauty that I have missed. And despite your protestations, I believe that your writing would put many a native speaker to shame; and I count myself among them. I was sorry to read about the change in your relationship, but happy that you are moving on. I am looking forward to reading and viewing your posts in the future.

    • Hi Norm, thank you so much for your support and kind words. I haven’t been updating my blog for nearly a year, until this post. I have been away too long. It was tough to adapt to single life after being with someone for so long, but I determine to move forward 🙂 Thank you again.

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